Most couples who are newly in love can’t keep their hands off each other, but no matter how exciting the sex life was at the beginning – at some point the desire ebbs. So that this doesn’t become a bigger problem, here are some tips to help you get back into bed.
At the beginning of a relationship everything is pink. Your partner seems irresistible and you would prefer not to leave the bed at all. But at some point almost all couples settle into a certain routine. Sex life becomes more monotonous. What used to happen maybe several times a day now happens once a week or even less frequently. We have a few tips on how to get your relationship moving again.
Change of location brings a new perspective on sex
Do you still remember the first days in your new apartment? Everything seemed fresh and exciting and you had new decoration ideas every day. But after a few months you just turned the key in the evening and made yourself comfortable on the couch at home in front of the TV. The magic was gone.
It’s the same with sex life. If you always practice sex in the same place, at the same time and in the same position, don’t be surprised if you get bored at some point. So try to bring as much variety into your love life as possible. You can start with the premises. So the bedroom will be taboo for the next few days. But the hot lovemaking might take place in the kitchen. There are also foods in the fridge that make the act even more exciting. You can’t just decorate cakes with whipped cream… And maybe you’ll spontaneously pick up your loved one from work and kidnap them to the nearest hotel. You will see – the change of location works wonders.
Dress code not only in the office
Of course, at the beginning of the relationship, your partner is the most attractive person you have ever met. But at some point the rose-colored glasses disappear and you realize that even the greatest Adonis has to struggle with one or the other flaw. If your partner then also neglects his appearance, your sex life will quickly suffer. The reverse is of course also true. You should also make it a priority to be attractive to your partner. Only if you both care for each other will your love life remain active. Before your relationship, you didn’t go to the club in sweatpants and a hoodie to look for a partner.
Especially when it comes to lingerie, women and men often have very different ideas. Maybe you’ll make yourself happy on the anniversary and give your partner something that you really like and not your loved one. And if you then carry your presents with joy for the other, your sex life will certainly not suffer as a result. On the contrary!
Talking makes you hot
Everyone has certain sexual desires. Unfortunately, many are embarrassed to talk about it. As a result, pure flower sex is practiced in numerous relationships, although perhaps both have completely different preferences.
The only remedy is a good conversation, for which it is never too late. Why don’t you take an evening to talk about your ideas in peace and quiet? Of course, no one should do things in their sex life that they don’t like. But if you don’t talk about your preferences, you don’t have much of a chance to find out for sure if you don’t find similar things hot.